This is just driving me nuts!?

Exactly! A lot of my friends complain that their boyfriends aren't sensitive enough, they don't share a lot, don't talk about their feelings, etc. Yet when they meet a boy that DOES they are like "Oh he's gay, he has to be." Why is it that a guy has to belch, fart, high-five other guys, HAS to watch football, and other pointless stuff like that to prove their macho side in order to be saved from a label?